13 March, 2008

The Art Of Dirty Talk

Quiet, focused sex can be intense and climactic -- but sex where one of you makes noise, opens your mouth and says things to crank up the heat can be some of the most concentrated and profound sex imaginable. Dirty talk makes hot sex even hotter, and can also be an invaluable skill to have when you're separated by distance, but connected by a phone or DSL line.

Hot talk is simply when you describe sex, in as much detail as possible, with a bit of drama and timing and carefully chosen words. You don't necessarily have to use harsh or slang words, and you never have to use words or terms you're uncomfortable with. On the flipside, if you're the kind of person who doesn't usually use words like "pussy" or "cock," these words coming out of your mouth in a heated moment might just send your lover over the edge.

While we usually think of talking dirty as something that only happens during sex, you can employ this versatile sex toy as an appetizer before sex, during heated foreplay or tease your lover throughout the course of the day in a series of calls, Instant Messages or voicemail messages. You can describe a sexual fantasy -- yours or theirs -- in explicit detail, from start to finish. Or, describe what's happening right then and there, especially if you're masturbating or doing something else deliciously erotic. Further, you can tell him or her what you'd like them to do, or what you'd like to do to them.

Read the full article @ Tiny Nibbles

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