12 December, 2007

Having better sex

OKAY, okay. We get it. You're an adult and you've been "doing it" for years. There's nothing you haven't tried and there's nothing you don't already know.

But here’s the deal: no matter how sensational your love life already is, it can always get that teeny bit better.

And if it’s a tad on the ordinary side, it can be totally transformed. Here’s how.

Step Out of your Comfort Zone

It’s all very well to assume that all of your make-out sessions will culminate in wild, fabulous sex, but for most of us that just isn’t the case. If you want your love life to really fire up then you need to keep things spicy.

One of the simplest ways to do that is by trying something brand-spanking new. Jo Karabin, managing director of Pash, a party plan company that specialises in all things sexy, recommends you give something novel a go every 28 days.

“Changing the dynamic and doing something different at least once a month helps to inject the fun back into your relationship,” Karabin says.

“It doesn’t have to be anything you’re not comfortable with. It can be as simple as wearing sexy lingerie. Trying something new might sound pretty obvious, but trust me, it works.”

Tonight I will: Try something I’ve never, ever tried before.

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