Quickie Sex

The bed partner of the myth that says good sex 'just happens' with zero effort is the one that says the rampant desire which had you shagging in cupboards at the beginning of your relationship will last forever. It won't. But research shows that that you can teach yourself to be more sexual - and to want sex with your partner more often. Train your brain to turn yourself on every day. A shower is far more sensational if you soap yourself the way a lover would. When you're chatting to a colleague, focus on their hands and remember what your partner did with theirs last time you had great sex. The more you start thinking about sex, the more you keep thinking about sex. It's not your lover's job to keep you turned on, it's yours.