09 April, 2008

The Rule of Blowjobs for Women


The art of oral pleasure goes far beyond the three T’s: tips, tricks and techniques. They can be useful, sure, and definitely fun to learn and try. But tips and tricks are just that – and employing them without any true emotion leaves a woman feeling like a whore (and not in a good way) or a drone/robot, and a man feeling empty - literally and figuratively, if you’ve brought the blowjob to its usual conclusion. So the first rule of blowjobs is never do anything you don’t really want to do. The second rule of blowjobs is… never do anything you don’t want to do. The third and only other rule of blowjobs? It’s all about the pleasure – his and yours. Everything else is frosting on the cake. So here comes the frosting…

She Likes It, She Really Likes It!
This is the single most important part of the blowjob. The pleasure you take in giving it. When a man is in this position, he is at his most vulnerable. He is open and exposed to you. (Remember, your vagina doesn’t have teeth!) For me, this amount of trust is breathtaking and beyond arousing. I always take it as the profound and delightful gift it is.

Cleanliness is Next to…
Many women hesitate to perform fellatio because of the smell or taste. Personally, I love that particularly masculine scent, but if it turns you off, don’t worry, warm water and a washcloth are a great way to start a blowjob, and the rough cloth and some gentle rubbing and squeezing will go a long way toward getting him hard. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just make it part of foreplay.

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